"It will get done when it gets done."
Honey, sometimes things get done too late and you regret not having done the things you wanted to do.
The difference is my wants are all family based.
Not that family is more important than individual desires. A balance is key and I know I'm far from balanced.
We both want to not have regrets. It's just our desires are not the same.
No one is right or wrong. It's just the way it is. Our paths twist and weave. Right now we're at different forks.